Engaging with Life
Michelle Vesser helps people on their journeys, engaging with life in such a nourishing way. She’s a wise woman of the woods who I have always experienced as truly willing to wade into the deepest waters of consciousness.
Michelle has spent her life cultivating a relationship tending the landscapes both inside of us and all around. She’s helped others to garden for several decades at the OAEC (or Occidental Arts and Ecology Center in Western Sonoma County) as one of their leaders of their extensive and impressive permaculture gardens.
And she also has been a lighthouse along the stormy seas for many a wayfaring sailor engaging with the oceanic vastness of our innermost emotional waves. We met years ago at a workshop, and have continued to run into each other around Northern California’s gatherings ever since.
When I arrived, Michelle walked me through the garden to our podcast perch. We sipped on Lemon Verbena and nettle tea while we caught up on the spaces since we had last dropped in together. After recording the podcast, we took a walk to a redwood grove behind her home to record a meditation video to supplement the audio that we had created together. A single white trillium greeted us along the path.
To watch and listen to the sounds of Michelle’s words on a windy day in the woods, you can visit my YouTube channel. You can also read the words to the poem that Michelle read on the podcast episode below.
Poem “Offering” by Barry Vesser
(written to honor his wife Michelle)
“This journey seems long
In human years.
The coming to blood,
The clumsy courting of life,
The feeling your fullness
And the depth of despair.
The discovery of fear and love
In your heart.
Once you started down
this meandering thread of a
path toward yourself, the resources for
the journey began
to appear as if by magic.
Too often you felt silenced.
The stone in your throat
Strangled and garbled your words.
The weight of a male driven culture
Paving over
Farmland, putting up shopping malls
Where there had been
Orange and lemon trees
Drove you inward.
You do not belong
You are not enough,
We do not want
your knowledge,
The voices chanted.
In the bottom of
that dry well you
almost disappeared.
But you took your fear and anger
And made a maroon cloak from them,
And traveled into the dark
At times crawling on your hands
And knees removing the sharp
Stone from your path.
Then the darkness spoke to you
Its song bigger than silence.
And you listened with your whole,
Raw being trembling
You had to let go of so much,
Everything,
To make you light
enough for this journey.
You met strong women there,
Generous crones who shared
Their life wisdom and offered
Love, patience, tools, and perspective.
Each showed in their own way
Your connection to the mother,
The luminous source that breathes us all
And encouraged you to choose yourself
And I have been given the gift
Of witnessing this transformation.
I see: you before the mirror
Delighting in every grey hair
That wiggles through, like a little girl
Who can’t wait for her birthday.
I see: the girl who could not speak
Presiding over your fifth wedding.
Or teaching in the garden, at the head
Of a huge wooden table full of people
Connecting food, spirit and the earth
Restoring that ancient relationship;
Or playfully sharing cherry tomatoes
With the garden apprentices
After a long, hot harvest day;
Or with your dirty knees flashing
Through the holes in your pants as
You tenderly heal plants into
The soil in the fading light.
I see: you with a young woman,
Or a young man, holding their tender wounds,
The scars from the casual cruelties we inflict
On one another, and watering their vitality
Your reassuring laughter never far away.
You look into their dark places and like
A soothsayer offer them reflection and comfort.
You have stitched this journey
Together like a quilt, full of your
And other’s creative love and color.
May it warm you in those early
Morning meditations as
You lean into what is next.
Now, things are dropping away
Although nothing essential is lost
As if pieces of marble
Were falling off
The sculpture hidden within
Freeing and opening a you
That is part of this ancient river
You have settled into yourself
Offering your presence
Like a field full of space and light
Or a lake reflecting the sky from its depths
Or the universe unfolding its beauty
And looking over its shoulder
At itself.”
Contact Michelle
Her website: www.everythingsacred.co
Her email: michelle@everythingsacred.co
Wild Wisdom: www.wearewildwisdom.com
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